By Jessica Harper
One amazing story in the news recently concerns a baby in Albany
who tumbled out of a second-storey window (while her mother was
momentarily distracted) and fell into the arms of a postal worker
who stood below.
Talk about being in the right place at the right time! This story
gives new meaning to the term "postal service," which most people
regard as an oxymoron.
If you were that postal worker, wouldn't you think you had been
designated an angel, at least temporarily? How else could you have
been so miraculously positioned? And even if that was your only
angelic act ever, you would get to go through the day and the year
and your life, knowing that you had saved a tiny child.
You might figure that you no longer had to work to get to heaven,
that this event bought you a first class ticket. But hopefully you
would go on looking for angel opportunities, in spite of your
elevated status.
How about the child? What will she think, many years from now, when
she comes to understand the divine intervention that allowed her to
live past the age of eighteen months? Will she meet the postal
worker, get to know her angel? Hopefully, at the very least, she
will carry around a little shock and awe and gratitude that will
serve her well in life. Maybe she, too, will keep her eye on
windowsills for adventurous babies.
Now let us consider the third party in this miraculous triangle:
the mother.
I know that, although I have always had minor anxiety, when my
first child was born, I began to worry in earnest. My imagination
exploded with possible baby-threatening scenarios: SIDS, drowning
in one of L.A.'s omnipresent pools, kidnapping. Even now that she
is a teenager, I inhale when she hops in the Honda and only exhale
when she returns safely from the madness of the Los Angeles
freeways.
Most parents feel this way, to varying degrees, and I am sure the
mother of the Albany baby is no exception.
So how was it for her as she ran down the stairs to recover her
child after the fall, all her maternal anxiety finally justified?
She must have been gripped by devastation, guilt, hysteria and
grief; she must have been insane. Then, when she burst from the
door to find a postal worker holding her cooing baby, it is hard
even to imagine her transition to ecstatic disbelief.
Now, some days later, how does the mother feel after her worst
fears were realized and then so quickly dispelled? Aside from
putting new locks on the windows, how will she respond? My guess is
she will get the gift near-disaster gives: a greatly expanded sense
of her daughter's preciousness.
While this mother's emotional rollercoaster ride is way beyond
anything I have known, I feel the inpact of her story. When my
daughter comes home from college in a few weeks, I will worry while
she is in the cab to the airport, worry more while she is in the
air, and worry again until she rings the doorbell.
In all likelihood she will get home safely; angels will watch her
every step of the way. And when she falls into my arms, it will not
be from a high window, but I will flash back to the story of the
baby in Albany, and I will hug her a little harder.
Jessica Harper is an award-winning actor, author and
singer-songwriter. Her most recent book is "Uh-oh, Cleo," a chapter
book for young readers from G.P. Putnam's Sons. Learn more about
Jessica and her products for children at
http://www.jessicaharper.com.
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